Tattoos by Spade

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How Painful Is Getting a Tattoo? A Realistic Guide

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An honest guide to tattoo pain — which body parts hurt most, what factors affect it, and how to mentally prepare for your session at Tattoos by Spade in Waikiki.

Let's Be Honest About Tattoo Pain

Tattoo pain is real. Anyone who tells you it doesn't hurt is either selling something or has an unusually high tolerance. The more useful question is: what does it feel like, and can I manage it?

Most clients describe the sensation as a combination of scratching and burning — like a sunburn being scratched repeatedly. It's not the sharp spike of a needle injection; it's sustained, localized discomfort that waxes and wanes as the artist works. For the majority of people, it's manageable — especially for the first hour or two.

Pain by Body Part: An Honest Scale

On a scale of 1–10 (1 = barely noticeable, 10 = stop the session):

  • 2–3: Outer arm, outer thigh, calf, upper back away from spine
  • 3–4: Shoulder, forearm, chest away from sternum
  • 4–5: Inner arm, stomach, hip
  • 5–7: Sternum, collarbone, spine, shin
  • 7–9: Ribs, inner elbow, back of knee, armpit
  • 9–10: Hands, feet, fingers, toes, neck, head, face

These are averages. Individual anatomy, personal pain tolerance, session length, and sleep quality all influence where you personally land on this scale.

What Makes It Hurt More or Less

Things that increase pain: - Low blood sugar (not eating before your session) - Dehydration - Poor sleep the night before - Anxiety and anticipatory tension - Long sessions — the body fatigues and pain escalates after 3–4 hours - Thin skin over bone (see chart above)

Things that reduce pain: - Eating a full meal beforehand - Being well-rested and hydrated - Deep, controlled breathing during the session - Distraction (music, podcast, conversation) - Mental reframing — the discomfort is temporary; the tattoo is permanent

When to Tap Out

It's completely acceptable to ask for breaks. A good artist will check in and offer them. You're not weaker for needing one — long sessions require it.

Tap out signals: - Feeling lightheaded or nauseous (your blood sugar may have dropped) - Shaking or muscle tension that isn't stopping - Skin becoming visibly compromised - Pain escalating beyond manageable

Never suffer through a session silently. Communicate. Spade works with his clients — not on them. The goal is a good tattoo and a good experience.

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Tiger snake tattoo by Spade — detail work during session

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